Sometimes I just get really annoyed with body positivity?
I’m just not always in the right space to be happy for thin ppl or smaller fats finding body love? Like good for you but do you realize how much easier it is the closer you are to fitting into societal beauty standards? Sick of being inundated with photos of size 12s and 14s talking about how they used to hate their bodies when just a few years ago I would have taken lives to have a body like that.
Yeah I’m selfish some days, fight me.
so this is what i ended up with for the “make your audience angry” assignment
i dont know about ya’ll but that phrase pisses me right the hell off
Side tip: if anyone ever grabs your hair like the above, clamp one hand HARD down on your scalp where the hair is coming out (think of how you try to immobilize your hair when brushing tangles out so it doesn’t hurt as bad, only do so at the scalp and not further down the hair). Then use your other hand to start hitting the other person (go for the face!) and blocking any blows they may try to make with their free hand. You can also step into them (which removes the tension on your hair) and start throwing your knees into their groin, stomach, kick the side of their knee, etc.
The reason hair-pulling works is A) it HURTS and B) it’s an effective handle, especially because your instinct is going to be to pull away. But reduce the pain and the tension on the hair and you have more room to work with until the other person lets go, at which point you can run like hell or otherwise defend yourself as needed.
reblogged for the second comment. signal boost this, everyone should know about this.
The last person I got in a fight with tried to pull my hair and quickly found out my scalp is the least sensitive part of me.
Cameos featuring detailed profiles of Black men and women in precious metals and jewels were popular in many European countries. The ones above date circa 1600-1800. Some art historians relate the style above to depictions of the goddess Diana, others relate them to the association of Blackness and wealth that came though trade in the Middle ages and Renaissance.
